He asked me how often I workout. I told him 3/4 times a week. He stated this was his first session. We ended up talking about 15 minutes as I told him not to overdo it for his first workout. As I finished my workout, he finished his biking and we talked as I went to get some water.
I told him how I lost weight and my 18 month program. He works until the late evening and then comes in before going home. We talked about LA Fitness and I told him I moved to Planet Fitness because I do not need the pool and basketball court.
We ended up in the locker room and I put on my sweat suit while we talked about losing weight. I left first and he said bye and will see me again next time.
I have had women say hello and have had small talk with them but never a guy. I have not been back to the gym because of the holiday and a Tennessee funeral I had to attend.
I find it interesting that I want to be accepted for who I am. With women its OK, but with men, I do not know. Men are always hunting. Was he genuinely interested in my weight loss success or was he hunting?
I do not know and I do not have a girlfriend to discuss this with. I really need to join a group, so I can learn and have some girls to talk to about these issues. My best girlfriend died almost 2 years ago. I really miss her.
She would have been the girl I could talk to about this issue.
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